Submissive Like Christ

Submission has turned into a nasty word over the last century. Thanks to feminism, submission has become letting husbands rule and dominate us and we have no say or opinion. Unfortunately, we don’t think of submission any other way because we don’t understand what healthy submission looks like. The good news is that we don’t need to look too far or too hard to see a perfect example of submission. In Philippians 2:8 we are told, And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death: death on a cross. Christ was submissive and obedient to God the Father because He knew God’s will was needed for the salvation of humanity. Jesus was even submissive to God when the two are considered to be equals. You will notice there was no power struggle between the two of them, even during Christ’s life here on earth. Sure our husbands can predict the future, nor do they always act with the purest of intentions, but we are still called to submit. If you feel like your husband’s leadership is not biblical, seek God in prayer and then approach your husband with gentleness and humility.

Did you know being submissive to your husband can make you more beautiful? You heard me right. The Bible tells us, In the same way, you wives, be subject to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won over without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they observe your pure and respectful behavior. Your adornment must not be merely external—braiding the hair, wearing gold jewelry, or putting on apparel; but it should be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. For in this way the holy women of former times, who hoped in God, also used to adorn themselves, being subject to their own husbands. 1 Peter 3:1-5 Our beauty runs deeper than just how we look on the outside. As someone who has lived over four decades, I can tell you that your beauty will fade, your skin will sag, and things that you tolerated well in your past, do not mean you will accept them well as you age. Your husband should not only be attracted to your physical beauty but also the beauty of your spirit. Your spirit should become more beautiful every year as your relationship with the Lord grows and gets stronger. We can only have spiritual growth and spiritual beauty when our bond with God deepens and, learn to love Him and trust Him fully. Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Proverbs 31:30. When we fear the Lord, we are obedient to him and obedience and submission go hand in hand. Love God by obeying His word and being the wife He intended you to be.